Hi guys I'm 5 months pregnant and found out my husband of 7 months just cheated on me. He DMed a girl on IG on 10th of July. I discovered on 23rd July. He even bought the bitch souvenirs from Thailand. UPDATE: 1-2 weeks later from 23rd July, he confessed on 15 October that he "met her for the last time to pass the souvenir The RED Gentlewoman bag" I was really heartbroken that he still meet her even after he got caught and informed of his infidelity to both our families. His lack or absence of remorse is really breaking my heart. I don't wish for my son to have a broken family. I'm not strong enough to be a single mother. It's been 3 months since 23rd July when I first saw their texts, I still feel depressed and cannot forgive and forget. We dated for 6 years and he never cheated then. Why now after married? I have been crying. I hate his family as they never give me the proper support when I was depressed. I want to divorce him and his whole toxic family. I'm so done but afraid for my future innocent son. He don't deserve a broken family. I sent the screenshots to his male BFF and his BFF told him that I overreacted. He at first pities me but in the end he felt that I overreacted and too much with constant sending of how his "angel upright BFF" treated me. His family and his male BFF was turned off with how I reacted. Now I'm ashamed of myself. People think I'm a psycho and now thinks "No wonder he cheated, you're a crazy b". I'm 5 months pregnant and this have really made me go crazy. I wanted to expose him to his 2 male BFFs so as to show them that my husband is not as stand-up, family man that he portrays to the world. He really is a good actor. While we were at Thailand, he was busy texting the married woman while I was beside him. His sister can some more say "Wah she is pretty" so super insensitive. And he packed my stuff in black plastic trash bags and took a picture to "coax me into coming back" as he knows I've blocked him and stayed over at my parents'. He said he had no choice but to do that as that's the only way he will get to see me. His sister can some more ask me when I'm collecting the black trash bags with my clothes inside. No asking how am I? Sad how a woman can treat another woman like this. Husband toxic, family also toxic. Sad for my 1st unborn son.
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- Husband Cheats When I Am 5 Months Pregnant#12098advicerant· 25d ago👍 0❤️ 0😂 00
- Deluded malesssss#12010funny· 25d ago
Occasionally I browse the infamous local sex forum for laughs & recently I saw some posts which made me roll my eyes. Some of these males are so pissy and angry that they have to pay “so much money” for sex & even suggested that women should be paying them instead. Please. You can’t even get women to sleep with you willingly for FREE. And u think women would PAY to sleep with you?? LMAO. Have y’all taken a good look at yourselves in the mirror? Most of y’all Sg males are short (<1.75m lol!) and/ or FAT, scrawny, acne face, prob have a shrimp dick AND smell bad. I won’t even start on the personality. DELUDED AF.
Read more👍 0❤️ 0😂 00 - What do u do if your man act like this?#12003funnyrant· 25d ago
Funny story. So my man strike toto by buying his ex female colleague carplate. He notice that the carplate always kena. So he tried his luck then kena liao. Funny lo, first thing he do, he go jio the ex female colleague to eat HDL. Not only that, he offered to pick her up. Anddddd, he said he will book it. Mind you hor, he nvr book anythg when go out to eat at cafe/restaurant with me/frns/fam. He always ask me to research and book deeee horrrr. So my heart drop till idk where le when i read their msg. In my mind,i was thinking like oh, u can do booking for her, bt nvr with me. Even valentine also ask me to book, he say he jz pay. Just book wherever i want. Like bro, i feel hen stupid. Sometimes i receive msg like those guys with partner, i will think like, that's not good. Why thy are texting girls when they hv partner. I don't react to those msg cz i know he will be uncomfortable. Like BFFR??? Why I dont receive the same energy back. He keep saying she's just a friend, nth happen. I still love u. Etc. Like the reason he gv, i cannot brain leehhhhhhh. Why do u need to update ur daily thgs in ur life to her??? Then he replied, no la just casual chat ma. Can i do casual chat to a man? I dont think so loooo. Walao, imagine i do the same thing to a guy. Different reaction liao lo. Sure say, no la, ur this guy is butterfly, different ma, he obviously want somethg frm u. Brrooooooo? Ni jiang wan lo. Im not really sensitive or jealous so I jz agree thm going for dinner. Fast forward few days, i tried taking his phone to read some text bcz i have a gut feelings something is not right. Then he said he need to use phone. We dont always check each other phone cz i really trust him. This make me more sus. After few days gone by, i try again lo. Reading those msg between him and the ex colleague, hmm, he been sending him some update like what he would tell me usually. Like bro, u reli so desperate for frns meh. He keep saying he dont hv much frns la. Etc. I feel so stupid leh. Like my partner is like what i think those guys with partner then act like single anyhow go text girls. Walao leh. Cannot brain. His msg make me feel like..... Actually he can put effort de leh, bt not for me lo. Like u can actually do those thgs de leh, maybe im not good enough for u to do all this?? Like i feel hen stupid, cz very embarrassing for me to hv a man keep updating other girl his things instead of me. Like also i feel wtf leh. Why u can do that to an ex colleague. Make booking la. Go fetch her la. But fetch me go somewhr sometimes also say far. Maybe really relationship too long, will tk each other for granted la. Idk bro. But overall, we been tgt for 4years plus and no relationship is perfect. I know we need to compromise and forgive each other. He is really good to me and spoiled me alot. Anyhow, he apologised and i choose to forgive him. Will update if have part 2. Sorry for mixed and broken english. Rip to u reading until the end. Stay happy and safe.
Read more👍 0❤️ 0😂 00 - Honestly didn't know what happened?#12002advice· 25d ago
My bestie have been plump (not fat) all her life since she was a teenager. She recently signed up for a diet plan which she just drink "diet shake" and "coffee" and then have nothing else. The sale person promised her that she will lose 10kg in 4-5 weeks. She followed the diet plan strictly and lose 3kg in 1 week. She kept sending me information and pamphlets about the diet plan and asking me to join too. I am also on the plump side but I am healthy. I did a body checkup last year, no problem. I prefers the natural way - I walk home daily from the MRT station instead of taking bus and I cook for my family so I eat a balance diet, with occasional treats lah! The most important thing is, I don't believe it's healthy to lose so much weight in such a short time without exercising, just dieting. I told her what I feel and wish she stopped trying to persuade me. From then on, I realised that whenever our conversation touched on any topic about weight, fashion, sports or kpop idols (because they're all overly underweight??), she became evasive or get annoyed or just change topic. Eventually, she stopped contacting me or responding to my text. Honestly, I secretly felt a little relieved when she stopped contacting me because she have too much "red tapes" but we have been friends for over 10 years already. I do feel a little sad. What would you do if you're me?
Read more👍 0❤️ 0😂 00 - Settle for better ones#12001rant· 25d ago
Seriously, what's wrong with SG guys? Met a number of guys on dating apps and none of them own a car to fetch me for dates. Either they suggest to take the train together or Grabbing from my place. If you are too broke to own a car, please don't bother dating us and focus on your work first.
Read more👍 0❤️ 0😂 02 - Unethical work practices by my manager#11996advice· 25d ago
I used to work in a IT company for SG Government, my area of expertise was coding/testing however my manager was lazy ass and he used to ask me to export data and prepare presentation for Singapore Government customers all the time. Whenever I used to highlight that the data is incorrect I cannot prepare PPT based on incorrect data, he used to threaten me to fire from job. he was hungry for appreciation and greedy for money, he did not even care if he get caught by government (i am not sure how big that crime was), and showcased data in ppt as if good results produced. He presented the same to SG government regardless of my constant request. At last I told his boss that he is doing unethical work then to my surprise his boss was also like him. he started gaslighting me in the office about my attitude towards the job, I kept quite because I was the non Singaporean, Finally, I got fed up and I resigned. for a small period of time I had a Singaporean manager, he never forced me to do unethical work even we fixed many issues during his tenure and my old manager took the credit. PS: never work with someone who is unethical. They might use you as a puppet and put full blame on you once they are done with you in future.
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