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A bit of Backstory about myself. My dad passed away 10 years ago, i grew up quite independent and financially supporting myself with bursaries & part-time job. Don't want to give any burden to my mother who's supporting me and my brother at that time. Even when the time i got married most of the expenses, ROM and Ceremony and furniture i paid myself. My mom only give ang bao money to the in law and some gold chain to my wife (LTVP holder) Bring forward to this day. I 27 yrs old diploma holder married to my PR wife and she's pregnant. Currently I am staying at my mom’s house with my wife 3 of us. While my bro was chased out of the house in late June this year by my mom due to some family issue. In the beginning when my wife moved in, my mom was happy. my wife helped out with the house chores and cook for the family. While 3 of us are staying in the house, I used to pay for house water/electrical bill and her phone line & house Wi-Fi bill before my wife is pregnant. When my wife is pregnant, she stopped working. At this point I am the solo bread winner for my family. I stopped giving water/electrical money but I still help out pay out with her phone bill & House Wi-Fi and other household items. Even tho we still cook for her once in a while and her birthday I will bring her out to eat at restaurant and sometimes I got bonus, I will bring her out eat too. In the first place I never thought about inheriting my mom’s house and her wealth even when my bro was chased out of the house. I applied for BTO, gotten my number and baby is otw and cost of living in Singapore. You guys know too. I stopped giving water/electricity money but I still fork out the rest of it ever since my wife stopped working when she’s pregnant. Since two weeks ago, she told me personally to surrender my insurance plan and take out the money and give it to her instead and said wanna retired soon. I don’t mind surrender my insurance and give you everything. In the beginning not mine anyway but ever since that day her tone and behaviour change. It’s like she’s drawing a line between herself and me/wife. My wife due date is in 2 months++ time. Seeing my own mom wanna draw a line between us. For my own family sake. I have no choice but to move out, for my baby and wife sake. Had no choice but to seek MP for help to apply PPHS. No news from HDB yet, I just hope can move out before my wife give birth. If not, move back to my wife country if government can’t help me. The house and the money my mom can take all of it and retired and I don’t want any part of it not mine in the first place anyway. Dad passed away early, A younger brother who can’t think about what’s good or bad. A mother lack sympathy for her son. And me, a son sorry for not being rich. I just like normal person with normal salary. What a lifeee. Even to me and my wife, what’s children. We give them a life, never once we want something in return when we’re old. I love my wife, my wife love me. That’s our love for our newborn child. Just want them be happy and live their life.